Telling someone that you are interested in them romantically can be hard for many people, especially if they believe that doing so makes them vulnerable. Then, not only are we battling with the emotions raging inside us but also with the question of whether we should tell the person or not. Many people feel the desire to express their feelings, but are held back by the fear of coming on too strong. But no relationship moves forward if one is too shy or scared to communicate their thoughts. Which is why, here’s how you can go about telling someone you like them without coming on too strong.
Speak well of them
Let the person know that you have good thoughts about them. Not only must you communicate what you like about them but also how great they make you feel. But don’t make up stuff and lie, and in no way should you make it sound like you are trying to flatter them. And definitely don’t do too much of it.
Give them space but also have a presence
You don’t have to send them 20 texts a day for sure. A single text checking on them and how their day is going sounds good, and is mostly well received. Giving them their space is essential as is taking yours, but also be up for things when a comfortable plan comes up. Also, when you are with them, give them your full attention.